As the bus moves ahead...

As the bus moves ahead...

Here I sit beside the window, leaving the trees and the moments of the past behind but forgets to grab  myself from the tomorrow land.

As the winds blow, my wandering mind chooses to settle and watch the memories flow.

Realizing the need to fight for a place in the cold world, I pull myself into the chaotic reality with a force getting wet as the rain pours.
Many hours later, I muster up the courage to cross the turmoil while I sit beside the window as the bus moves ahead...

Typical Indian education system!!!

India is considered to be sacred and holy in many ways. Sure it is! May be not in this issue. We all must have heard of corruption in almost all the countries. But, here is this so called sacred country where admissions are SOLD. Students who work hard just can't get into a decent college but the rich kids can surely do. Though they don't have good grades they get the admissions but the others who actually strive hard for success can't because they can't afford to pay as they have no money in bulk. That's probably not their fault. The system which is actually controlling it is responsible. Hope this will be an eye opener and the respected authorities could help in any way possible.

You deserve to be loved. Don't you?

Someone told me that priorities are given to those who don't and can't understand us. Every person wants to be loved. Every girl out there dream of her Prince Charming and I'm sure that even boys do wanna find their princess. But most of the time we all run back of that person who don't even care about us. We wait for their messages and dream of talking to them but they also get busy in running after somebody just like us. They may hurt you and don't give you the love you deserve. It's hard to stop having feelings on them because everyone knows how important "first" love is. You may not be important to everyone nor am I. But there is someone out there waiting for me to whom I may mean the whole world😊. Even there's someone waiting for you people. So,don't run after people who don't deserve you. But,all these experiences become memories someday and they are to be cherished till the end of our lives :) What I know is that you need to give time some time to make you meet that person. You neva know what happens cause life is a surprise,Right? Hope you get a person with whom life seems to be magical even after you turn 70. Love can never be made...it just happens and so are relations! Be in it with someone who knows your value and respects you for what you are. I'm sure life would be much more exciting when you find someone like him or her. Get ready to open your surprise with a smile ;) 

Thank her now!

Mommy have I ever told you that you are the best? Everyone feels good when they get rewarded for their work but there we have someone in our homes who don't even get their recognition. And I have someone in my home too... She knows when I feel low and when I want to talk about something. Though I yell at her and make things worse for her she still loves me the way she did when I came into existence. She is the one who knows all my secrets and secret crushes and teases me like a buddy. She knows what I want and what I hate but still does them :P My day just don't start without her scolding me but when it does then I must think about it..lol... Though kids feel that moms can sometimes be headache but they can be really sweet too. You are the one who was there with me during the bad times and I am sure that you will be there with me whenever I need someone. Though it's a bad comparison I need to say that our relationship is as thick as thieves. I sometimes may talk rude with you but I even want to tell you that I love you and thank you for what you've done for me.

Do you know your kids?

All the parents think that they know what their kids want. But the worst part is only few of them know about their kids. Even children have some feelings which should be respected by the elders. The most common dialogue used by parents in India is "we know everything and when we were kids we never used to do something against our parents will". Dear parents you were teens in some 70's and this is 2014. Things change according with time and so do kids. Let your kids explore the world. Having fun with pals is not wrong but crossing the limit is wrong. Teach them to understand the circumstances but don't teach them to follow your decisions during those circumstances. Why can't a boy and a girl be best friends? Catching your bestie's hand is not a wrong thing. Cause they know what they are and as a parent you need to understand their friendship. Going on a bike ride with her group of friends which includes boys doesn't mean that your girl is in a relation or she is gonna do something wrong. First you need to trust your daughter. If you understand and respect your kids feelings then you're gonna get your kids extra love, respect. Behave more like a buddy than as a parent and see what the result is. You can know what your kid is like.

My Angel

Remember listening to stories of angels when we were kids? Won't it be fun spending time with people you love especially when it's raining? Everybody have someone special in their life. Sometimes you consider them as angels. Yes,even I have an angel in my life. I got to know this when my angel is gone from this world leaving all us behind. Never did I expect that a person whom I loved a lot is now not in this world :( He is one of the important persons who made my life brighter.  He used to make fun of me,scold me for skipping my lunch,laugh with me,fight with me,fight for me and above all the things love me <3 He is one of the persons who hate seeing me sad. Also he is my first love :) and I am his first wife ;) This is the angel who cried for me when I was in hospital and this is the angel whom I cried for when he was on death bed :'(  But I don't want to think that he is not in this world cause he always wants me to be stronger and happy. Cause he is still alive in my dreams. Cause I know that he still loves me wherever he is :) Come back soon my angel...am waiting for you <3 Miss you.... And he is none other than my mama. I have the best mamas in the world. Love you both mamas <3 

What say?

Our teachers teach us to be proud of our country by telling us how great our country is.We used to believe that.We are in a country which used to respect women (NOTE: in olden days).Today a person in our society just thinks about him.What matters him the most is himself and his family.Well,that's not wrong.It'll be better if all the men in this country behave in the same manner.It would be better if they concentrate only on their lives.It doesn't matter if they don't serve the society. Things would not be this much complicated.But why do some men concentrate only on other girls?Why do they like to interfere and spoil their life?It was shocking when I came to know how the poor girls are treated when something goes wrong in their lives.Even if mistake is not on their part they have to pay for it.Is this right?People these days are educated.Can't they just question their conscience whether this is correct or not?Why should we girls live in a state of fear and confusion?There are many questions in a girl's heart which have no answers and don't know whether she will get an answer in future.Still after all these things,if our elders teach us to be proud of our country then Yes,I am proud of my country.But people have to remember that they are teaching a lie to their kids.