Wednesday, September 24, 2014

Do you know your kids?

All the parents think that they know what their kids want. But the worst part is only few of them know about their kids. Even children have some feelings which should be respected by the elders. The most common dialogue used by parents in India is "we know everything and when we were kids we never used to do something against our parents will". Dear parents you were teens in some 70's and this is 2014. Things change according with time and so do kids. Let your kids explore the world. Having fun with pals is not wrong but crossing the limit is wrong. Teach them to understand the circumstances but don't teach them to follow your decisions during those circumstances. Why can't a boy and a girl be best friends? Catching your bestie's hand is not a wrong thing. Cause they know what they are and as a parent you need to understand their friendship. Going on a bike ride with her group of friends which includes boys doesn't mean that your girl is in a relation or she is gonna do something wrong. First you need to trust your daughter. If you understand and respect your kids feelings then you're gonna get your kids extra love, respect. Behave more like a buddy than as a parent and see what the result is. You can know what your kid is like.

Sunday, June 1, 2014

My Angel

Remember listening to stories of angels when we were kids? Won't it be fun spending time with people you love especially when it's raining? Everybody have someone special in their life. Sometimes you consider them as angels. Yes,even I have an angel in my life. I got to know this when my angel is gone from this world leaving all us behind. Never did I expect that a person whom I loved a lot is now not in this world :( He is one of the important persons who made my life brighter.  He used to make fun of me,scold me for skipping my lunch,laugh with me,fight with me,fight for me and above all the things love me <3 He is one of the persons who hate seeing me sad. Also he is my first love :) and I am his first wife ;) This is the angel who cried for me when I was in hospital and this is the angel whom I cried for when he was on death bed :'(  But I don't want to think that he is not in this world cause he always wants me to be stronger and happy. Cause he is still alive in my dreams. Cause I know that he still loves me wherever he is :) Come back soon my angel...am waiting for you <3 Miss you.... And he is none other than my mama. I have the best mamas in the world. Love you both mamas <3 

Sunday, March 2, 2014

What say?

Our teachers teach us to be proud of our country by telling us how great our country is.We used to believe that.We are in a country which used to respect women (NOTE: in olden days).Today a person in our society just thinks about him.What matters him the most is himself and his family.Well,that's not wrong.It'll be better if all the men in this country behave in the same manner.It would be better if they concentrate only on their lives.It doesn't matter if they don't serve the society. Things would not be this much complicated.But why do some men concentrate only on other girls?Why do they like to interfere and spoil their life?It was shocking when I came to know how the poor girls are treated when something goes wrong in their lives.Even if mistake is not on their part they have to pay for it.Is this right?People these days are educated.Can't they just question their conscience whether this is correct or not?Why should we girls live in a state of fear and confusion?There are many questions in a girl's heart which have no answers and don't know whether she will get an answer in future.Still after all these things,if our elders teach us to be proud of our country then Yes,I am proud of my country.But people have to remember that they are teaching a lie to their kids.

Thursday, February 27, 2014

The day I saw 'U'

When I see you, I feel like you are made for me.
When I see you,my heart skips a beat <3
When I see you the whole world turns colorful.
No matter how sad I am,when you smile I'll always feel better,
and your smile is a part of my world now.
When I hear you talking I answer nothing but simply start smiling :)
Thinking about you is the only thing I like to do.
Seeing you cry is the worst night mare I've ever had :( ,
and your smile is like a ray of sunshine.
No matter where you are,no matter how you are...I can never stop loving you.
The day you started talking to me and smile at me is the day I decided that you are my life.
With you by my side I feel complete.
I will always love you for what you are <3 <3